Raising a Nation of Good Men and Women

What About The Boys? is a national prevention-focused programme that supports young people in challenging harmful gender stereotypes, building healthier relationships and contributing to the prevention of gender-based violence. The original programme works with boys on positive masculinity, emotional awareness and allyship. The second iteration expands the conversation to include girls and boys, emphasising mutual respect and shared responsibility.

Raising a nation of good men

 ‘What About The Boys? ’ is a national gender liberation movement aimed at creating a different definition of boyhood in which being sensitive, kind, respectful, accountable, expressive, and nurturing are no longer framed as being ‘weak’ or incompatible with being a man.

Thereby, equipping boys to demonstrate a greater tendency to reject conventional expectations of manhood.

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What Is The Programme About?

Lasting change requires engagement before harmful behaviours become entrenched. What About The Boys? combines engaging film-based learning, guided conversation, practical materials, mentorship and ongoing engagement to create opportunities for young people to reflect on identity, respect, emotions and relationships. The programme seeks to contribute to long-term behavioural and social change by encouraging young people to take responsibility for how they relate to one another.

One programme, two complementary iterations: the original What About The Boys? focuses on boys, positive masculinity and supporting them to become allies in preventing gender-based violence. What About The Boys? 2 brings girls into the conversation to promote understanding, dignity, healthy relationships and more equitable communities. Both remain part of the same programme identity; the second iteration is now the primary implementation focus.

The 4 Key Pillars of 'What About The Boys?'

REIMAGINE MASCULINITY

To enable young men to reimagine their masculinity and gender norms

TRAUMA SUPPORT

To support them in building emotional and cognitive skills for self-regulation and healing from trauma

CREATING HOPE

To provide information and tools to build hard skills around education and income generation to alleviate poverty and create hope

SAFE SPACE SUPPORT

To create access to safe spaces and support

'What About The Boys?' Programme Goals

The programme aims to challenge rigid stereotypes, develop healthier ways of expressing emotions, encourage respectful relationships and strengthen accountability. Through guided dialogue and participation, young people are encouraged to speak out against bullying, discrimination and violence.

Milestone Target:

To reach and impact 100 000 boys and girls nationally

  • 60 000 boys already reached (progress tracker)
  • 400+ mentors
  • 35+ organisations

Goal:

For every company in South Africa to sponsor a school to participate in the programme in townships, communities, rural areas, and cities across South Africa.

Targeted at high-school boys 

From rural, township, peri-urban and urban communities across South Africa

Collaboration with public and private sector

Designed to contribute to achieving Pillar 2 of the National Strategic Plan on GBV

Multi-phased
approach

Combining education and entertainment through a unique and exciting model

National Reach & Digitally Accessible

Footprint in all 9 provinces, with a digital platform zero-rated by Cell C

So how does it work?

The implementation combines screening and discussion of educational films, practical learning guides, mentor-facilitated conversations, personal reflection, pledges and digital follow-up. Specific delivery differs between programme iterations and implementation partners.

Phase 1:

National screening of an educational film aiming to strengthen relationship skills and build gender equity

Phase 2:

Distribution of a Blueprint booklet (The Good Men Guide) made in conjunction with the film

Phase 3:

The implementation of a national MENtorship movement, starting with guided dialogues after each screening,
that challenges gender stereotypes, is focussed on boys’ emotional development, and helps our MENtors hear and
respond to their needs

Phase 4:

Loop of accountability through a #DoBetter pledge personally signed by each boy

Phase 5:

Digitally led platform that enhances ongoing engagement and feedback

Phase 6:

Completion of relevant baseline and post assessment evaluations

Help Build a Future of Respect and Shared Responsibility

Partner with Primestars to support prevention-focused learning and constructive dialogue among young people in under-resourced communities.

Our 2023 Launch

Join the Movement: Enhancing the 'What About the Boys?' Programme

Our 2023 Presidential Ndaba

The Presidential "What About the Boys" Indaba was an impactful gathering uniting diverse stakeholders to combat gender-based violence (GBV) and raise a generation of responsible men. It featured survivor voices, highlighted the role of education in prevention, and culminated in a resounding call to action, emphasizing that young men and boys must not be left behind in the journey towards a South Africa free of GBV.

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